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We often refer friends to our post(s) on our experiences with Ben's Tuberous Sclerosis Complex, as of yet these are:
--- Our introduction to this disease and basic timeline February 2012 through July 26, 2013.

Friday, July 26, 2013

Our Personal Introduction to the World of Rare Diseases (Tuberous Sclerosis Complex)

Well, my usual disclaimer about extremely infrequent blogging, but this is a long story I really need to explain in one big chunk.

Ben is our sweet little now-2-yr old who is generally healthy, but turns out to have Tuberous Sclerosis Complex  It is a genetic disease that mostly hits the central nervous system and skin, but can also affect heart and kidneys. There is a really good explanation on the Tuberous Sclerosis Alliance website: http://www.tsalliance.org/pages.aspx?content=2

Our timeline so far is as follows:

February 2012: First Signs of Trouble - Initial Diagnosis

  February 2012: we started noticing some odd incidents where Ben would seem to mentally "check out"; he would be trucking right along (shoveling food in his mouth or whatever) and then completely go blank - as if he was asleep, but with his eyes open and staring. I noticed a few of these over about a week's time, but they were brief and subtle, so I just figured I'd mention it to his pediatrician since we were scheduled for an appointment the next week. I did, however, start keeping my camera within reach and set on "movie"... (Note: I was a Special Education teacher, that likely heightened my awareness of these events, but also helped reduce my panic level - I knew these incidents need serious attention but are not immediately harmful unless the person stops breathing or the seizure lasts more than 5 minutes)

  The day before his Dr appointment his little spells escalated to include his whole body going stiff when the stares set in. (Looked like he was reaching for his toes and got stuck). Afterward he would be disoriented for a few minutes and then really sleepy for up to an hour.

   Warning: most of the videos on this post are pretty sad. Feel free to skip them! I almost didn't include them, but I feel it is important for other people to recognize these sorts of things when they see them.

  This is what I called a stiff-and-stares, they are technically called Tonic seizures:


       
2/16/12 I took that first video into the Pediatrician and she immediately referred us to a Pediatric Neurologist at Children's Hospital of Wisconsin.

2/20/12 We were fortunate to be able to get an appointment reasonably soon - especially since about 8 days after the firtst Tonic seizures emerged, he moved on to full blown Tonic-Clonic seizures (the big shaky ones formerly called Grand Mal).

(Very Sad video again! Sorry!)


2/21/12 Ben had his first EEG (ElectroEncephaloGram - where they put electrodes all over head a record for about an hour) It showed frequent "spikes" (glitches in what should be relatively smooth brain waves) in the right rear section of his brain, both sleeping and awake, even when no specific seizure was being observed.

2/23/12 1st visit with Neurologist : We were told this type of seizure activity is not all that rare with infants - they may just have an underdeveloped patch of neurons. The good news is that they very often outgrow this kind of thing. The child is typically put on anti-seizure medicine for a year or two (to give the brain time to work things out on its own) and then they slowly taper off the medication and see what happens...

2/24 Ben was put on Depakote and the seizures disappeared pretty quickly. 
     (Note: to avoid side effects, most seizure medicines start out at very low doses and work up to the full prescribed dose to avoid serious side effects. Also, Depakote is dangerous to the liver, so we had to get lab work done a week after reaching the targeted dose.)

February 2012 - September 2012 Depakote working fine to control seizures. A couple side effects:
     - He is a pretty sleepy little guy - sleeps 10-12 hrs at night and still takes 2 naps a day (1 hr in the morning, 2-3 afternoon
     - The medicine and makes him terribly constipated (diet change wasn't enough to sort things out and we had to add Miralax to his drug list).
     - He is a bit delayed in developing motor skills. The pediatrician referred us to the "Birth to 3" program in our county which provides support families of children with delays or disabilities under the age of three, including physical/speech/occupational therapy according to need and with pretty low fees based on income. Their evaluation shows him to have a definite delay in Gross Motor skills, but not so low as to require intervention from their program. FYI: he didn't crawl on all fours until around 11 months and didn't walk until 16 months - not super bad, but on the low end of the scale....


September 2012: Mysterious "Birthmark" leads to Second Diagnosis

9/17/12 At Ben's normal 16 month checkup (which should have been at 12 mo - :-( ) I mentioned to the pediatrician that Ben's odd little "birthmark" seemed to be growing a little. The "birthmark" was a little patch of pale skin on his chest:


The ped. wasn't super concerned, but gave us a referral to a pediatric dermatologist.

9/20/12 The dermatologist looked at his pale patches and another spot we had assumed was another birthmark - a bumpy little patch just above his bum that was also paler than the surrounding skin. (Note: Our other children had hemangioma birthmarks, which start out dark red and raised but shrink back and fade by the time they are 2ish; this bump had pretty much looked like those do after they fade out.) It turns out that the pale patch on his chest is called an angiofibromas  or "ash leaf mark" and the one on his lower back is called a fibrous planque. These type of skin marks plus his history of seizures quickly led to a preliminary diagnosis of Tuberous Sclerosis Complex (TSC). 
     Basically TSC is a genetic disorder that can cause non-malignant tumors to form in many different organs, primarily in the brain, eyes, heart, kidney, skin and lungs. It can be inherited, but in his case is is believed to be a random mutation. It can have a wide range of effects, ranging from basically none (maybe just mild skin stuff) to crippling seizures and severe developmental delay or even Autism (patients may be completely mentally disabled).(There is a more thorough explanation on the Tuber Sclerosis Alliance webpage.)
     The dermatologist immediately ordered an MRI, heart exam, ultrasound of the kidneys, and complete eye exam.
9/24/12 MRI performed. (My poor Ben had a rough experience; it was difficult to get an IV in and during the test his oxygen would drop; they'd decrease the sedative and then he'd start waking up... so back and forth trying to balance the medication properly...) A couple days later the neurologist called us personally and asked us to come to the clinic in the next 2 days.


9/27/12 Diagnosis of TSC confirmed. Ben's MRI showed lots of little "tubers" (lumpy little tumors) scattered all over his brain. 
     Ben's tumors were/are quite small and we were told they typically do not grow, although they may appear to as the child's brain grows and the MRI becomes more distinct. One kind of these, known as subependymal giant cell astrocytomas (SEGAs), can block the flow of cerebral spinal fluid in the spaces (ventricles) in the brain -- those are the most dangerous for mental problems. Thankfully, Ben does not have a SEGA. Other mental challenges can pop up, though, whenever his brain hits one of the "road blocks" -- these can range from learning disabilities to autistic-like behaviors (repetitive motion being a more common one) to genuine Autism. 

10/15/12 Cardiac appointment, including both an EKG (electrodes again) and an Echo Cardiogram (ultrasound of heart). These showed no tumors or other heart complications (YAY!). Heart ones don't generally show up later - they are present at birth or not at all, and they often shrink over time, for that matter. (Double Yay!)
     Ultrasound of kidneys also performed, again no issues - though this test will be repeated yearly because kidney ones can pop up later in life. (Hmmm...)

Later in October 2012: Complete eye exam by pediatric ophthalmologist performed. No complications apparent, Unlikely to occur later but we are recommended to check back around 10 yrs of age and/or in the unlikely event vision problems do emerge later in life.
Sooo... Pretty much Ben was still just having the seizures to deal with....

January 2013: Storm Watch?

Early January 2013: We started to suspect Ben's Absence seizures were creeping back into his life --- Particularly noticing he'll go from playing happily to being very sleepy in a few minutes time. But it's almost time for a Neurology checkup anyway....

January 7, 2013: Neurologist said the re-emergence of seizures was not a huge surprise since Ben had gained a few pounds (dosage is based on weight and 2# is a much higher percentage of Ben's weight than it is of mine!). Depakote increased by a bit. I mentioned Ben's tendency to bit on the sleepy side and my concerns that would get worse with a higher dose. To counter that, Levocarnitine was added to his medications. Levocarnitine helps the liver metabolize the Depakote better - it can protect the liver and also alleviate some of those side effects...

Thankfully the Depakote increase and the addition of Levocarnitine alleviated the seizures and greatly reduced the sleepiness.

New "Tricks" Make Mama Suspicious

Mid-May 2013:  I began to be suspicious those old seizures were back again. I also noticed he was a bit wobbly/shaky at times - specifically dropping toys and stumbling while walking.

May 22: I was playing with Ben on the floor when he abruptly stopped, fumbled and dropped his toy, and did a couple funny little shakes - as if he had been startled or frightened. It only lasted a few seconds and he didn't loose any consciousness, but he was a bit shaky for several minutes (as if shivering).

May 25: In the afternoon my husband and I both saw another of these episodes while he was standing at the gate. Again, no loss of consciousness and he didn't even fall/sit down. It was Saturday, so we just figured we'd call the office on Monday.
    That Evening, though, he had a prolonged incidence of this behavior - several "jumps" in a row and almost 12 minutes of "shivering" followed by extreme sleepiness. That was enough for me to call up to the hospital for the on-call Neurologist! They questioned me closely, warned me to come to the ER if the "big stuff" lasted 5 minutes or more, but in the meantime to get Depakote levels checked and talk to our specific Nerologist...

May 18 - June 21st: To compress the story a bit, I'll just say that initially the plan of attack was to increase the Depakote (since it had worked before). Unfortunately it didn't really help - the events still continued to happen pretty much every day - most especially in the mornings (right before and after his morning dose). Here's what the "little" ones look like (a bit hard to see unless you are observing carefully:



June 21: Latest theory from Neuro is that maybe the Depakote itself is the cause - it can cause trembling... (I confess I was skeptical - in a year of treatment we'd never seen this). The dose decrease had no positive effect - the events were steadily getting worse. One thing rather puzzling to the Neurologist (and why one initial theory was that it was something other than a "real" seizure) was that Ben stayed completely conscious throughout the entire event(s) - he'd start walking off while still having waves of the big jerks.... You can see that in this video from June 24:

June 25: Neuro adds Keppra to Ben's medication. It can be used with Depakote, but since the Depakote is still under suspicion for the "little" tremors, we would taper him off of it as soon as we reached a full dose of Keppra. (This is one thing I HATE about seizure medication - because you have to taper on and taper off it takes a Long time to see if something will work!)

July 7: Up to full Keppra, almost off Depakote, time for our Neurology appointment. Went over the history of these recent events, said Keppra seemed like it might be helping but not all the way (no escalation and fewer "big" ones, but no event-free days yet... Keppra dose increased again.

July 19: Still having a rough time; Keppra increased yet again... Possibility of being admitted for observation mentioned. 

July 24: A couple more bad days in a row = admitted to Children's Hospital (CHW) epilepsy observation unit... No fun getting a bunch of wires glued to your head - and the helmet required to go to the playroom is the final insult!!!


"Big Brother" Weighs in: Conclusions from Hospital Observation 


Ben "performed" nicely for the technicians and nurses - several events that evening of varying severity and a bunch of the big ones the next morning. Upon reviewing the EEG graphs and video recordings, the Neurologist concludes that these events are clusters of Myoclonic seizures, typified  by brief shock-like muscle contraction. (Note: The TSA has a great page explaining the various types of seizures.) The Neuorologist also reported that Ben is having a lot of "spikes" on the EEG even when seizures are not apparent. The mis-fires are on both sides of the brain but mostly in the back. (Remember, it was only right-rear last time...) Since it is not "just" the seizures, the Neurologist is adding Felbamate to Ben's medications. When we hit the full dose of that, they will taper off the Keppra...


Tune in Tomorrow... (or in a month or two)

Well, that's it for now. Personally, I'm most concerned about the near-constant static more than the individual (observable) seizures. Here's hoping the Felbamate does the trick! The most fun is going to be that Felbamate requires weekly blood tests for up to six months, (then monthly for a while, etc.) because it can mess with blood counts in a serious way, as well as the usual potential liver damage. We have been reassured the blood trouble is pretty rare and hasn't happened in children, but still...

Other continuing concerns are some lingering delay in gross motor skills (but not super-bad anymore) and a noticeable delay in speech - he is 26 months old, has only about a 10 word vocabulary (if that) and does not put even 2 words together.

So, I'll try to keep things updated on here a little better, but if you want more timely updates please look for me on Facebook (Jennifer Haroldsen Higgins)....

Our sincere thanks to our families and friends who continue to be so supportive of us during this long journey! Many of you have brought treats (or even whole meals!) over and others have tended our other children when we've been pretty overwhelmed with the details of this adventure... And we really appreciate the love and prayers extended to us and our little sweetheart. We are very blessed. 

Monday, July 30, 2012

Great to Be Eight!

This spring Michael and Emily both turned 8 years old. In our church, the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, that is when children can be baptized. Both were looking forward to this important opportunity. We coordinated dates so that family from out of town would be able to attend....



Grandparents Maggie & Cy Higgins drove out from Utah; grandparents Brenda & Elliot Haroldsen flew out from Pittsburgh, and Jen's sister-in-law, Mary Haroldsen, flew in from Oklahoma. (We wish all of our siblings could have come but jobs and such wouldn't permit such a grand reunion this time....)

Michael and Emily dressed in white for baptism
In the LDS church we believe in baptism by immersion; those to be baptized and the person performing the baptism dress in white. After being baptized, the participants are given a special blessing confirming them members of Christ's church and granting them a special gift of the Holy Ghost to guide them in their lives. In the United States most baptisms are in small fonts in normal church houses. Baptisms are held separate from other church meetings, with friends and family in attendance. There is usually a small program with a couple talks and some songs and such.

Michael and Emily each chose a favorite song for the program ---- "When I Am Baptized" and "If I Listen with My Heart" --- and they decided to ask their Sunday School teachers, Ami Donich and Katie Sura, to give talks. Sister Donich spoke on baptism and reminded us that as baptism washes us clean from sin, the atonement of Christ is what makes this all possible. She assured the children that although we all still make mistakes, the atonement allows us the opportunity to repent and Christ will make things right. Sister Sura spoke about confirmation and the Holy Ghost. She reminded the children about the things they've been taught about the Holy Ghost --- that he is a special messenger of Christ and speaks to our hearts in many ways... He can guide us in decisions, warn us of danger, and comfort us during tough times.

Emily and Natalie also wanted to perform a special song (and Esther had to be in on the action, too). They love the song "O My Father", especially the arrangement by Sally Deford which sets the lyrics to the tune most commonly associated with "Come Thou Fount of Every Blessing".



(Grandpa's Camera battery started complaining so he only filmed the first 2 verses --- this will take you to a lovely mp3 of the whole song as sung by Becki Madsen)

Michael and Emily were baptized and confirmed by their father (Matt), with their grandfathers, Cy Higgins and Elliot Haroldsen standing as witnesses. While the participants were drying off and getting dressed, we played a DVD of some of the kids favorite "Mormon Messages" videos. I think the audience only got to the third story or so, but the full playlist is on my YouTube channel.

The whole evening was wonderful. We're so glad so much of our family, many of our friends from church, and a couple of the kids' friends from school came and joined us. We really appreciate Jan Fannon for playing the piano for the event, Gayle Donich for interpreting into sign language, and for voicing (from sign language) for Ami Donich's talk, and Laurie Ellsworth and Melinda Boschi for providing refreshments after the meeting. We have the best friends and family!

We are so proud of and happy for our Amazing Duo!

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Sunday, March 18, 2012

We're Still Here...

Well, I never claimed to be timely or consistent with "blogging"... But I am still taking lots of photos and scribbling down some of the funny things the kids do, so I suppose I'll get some "good" stuff up here again eventually....

In the meantime, if you want our "news" in smaller more frequent doses, feel free to "friend" me on Facebook.... (Jennifer Haroldsen Higgins)

(And if you don't trust me to recognize your name, please message me on FB before/when you send a friend request...)

Thursday, September 8, 2011

Ben's first Month

Little Ben was born in the middle of May and I still haven't put together and sent a birth announcement... Anyway, here is a little album of Benjamin's first month:


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Saturday, August 20, 2011

Off to Grandma's!

All summer the kids have been looking forward to one thing above all others: Going out to Grandma and Grandpa's house. We finally headed out August 3rd and were able to stay for almost 2 weeks this year. I was a bit more random than usual with photo taking, but I've put together a couple collages and a "scrapbook" with some of the pics I did get...
 

Having Fun with Grandma and Grandpa Haroldsen
    We always have a great time visiting Jen's parents. As well as making a few "excursions", we played at a couple nearby playgrounds, visited the library, and had "Early Christmas". (Early Cmas lets Grandma & Grandpa watch the kids unwrap their presents and also lets the kids enjoy summer-related gifts, like the girls' tent).

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Exploring the Carnegie Science Center and Children's Museum of Pittsburgh
     Carnegie Science Center is always a great place to visit --- for Matt as well as the kids! This year was our first time checking out the Children's Museum, though. We teamed up with (Jen's sister) Lisa and her boys for the day, and had a great time.

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Enjoying the Lake at Raccoon State Park (PA)
     On the Friday the 12th, we went out to the lake at Raccoon State Park with Lisa and her family. We had been there last year and really enjoyed it; this year the weather was not as warm, but we still had a great time. (The kids missed having Uncle Joe & Aunt Mary along this year, though --- Joe was always the one up for taking them out in the "deep" water....)

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We're so glad we got to go out to Pittsburgh this year! It's a bit of a drive (10 hours + potty stops, etc) but always totally "worth it"!

Monday, June 27, 2011

School Review

Just for fun, I had Mike, Em, and Nat help me put together some "smilebox" scrapbooks with pictures from the school year. Results follow...
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Natalie's 1st Year of School

Natalie went to half-day 4-yr-old kindergarten this year and Loved it! (Her teacher, "Mr. K" is legendary at Hoover) Be sure to check out the video clips of her singing after the first day of school and the class dancing/singing on their last day....

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A Snapshot of Mike's School Year

Mike had a great year in first grade. I think he/we pulled off a particularly cool set of show-and-tell's by bringing a cocoon in the fall and the resulting "polyphemus" moth in the spring! (We thought the little dude had perished over the winter but were pleasantly surprised!)

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Great Fun for Emily


Emily had a wonderful time this year, too. There were only about 6 girls in her class, so the teacher really encouraged them to "stick together" and be good friends to each other....

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Mom's 2 Cents Worth

I continue to be very pleased with our local school, Hoover Elementary (West Allis - West Milwaukee school district). The kids' teachers have all been excellent and the principal is great, too. I'm really enjoying being a "PTA mom", too. (I co-chaired the Reading Carnival committee and ended up mostly doing prize ordering/organization since the carnival was scheduled 4 days before I was due to have Ben!)

Needless to say, we are ALL looking forward to 2011-2012!

Wednesday, June 15, 2011

Happy Birthday Grandma Higgins!

Our Smilebox for Grandma Higgins:

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As always, it takes a few tries to get our video "messages" to everyone's liking.... One of these days I'll have to make an out-takes "reel"... (Today's favorite is when baby Benjamin sneezed during Esther's song, and her comments on it)

Hope you have a good day, Mom!

Wednesday, March 23, 2011

Happy Birthday Grandma Haroldsen!

Just a little "smilebox" we made for my mom's birthday:


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The kids had a great time singing for Grandma, but Mike had to do his joke quite a few times because Esther kept interrupting... We'd think we had her interested in something in the other room, but she'd come running back in when she heard him start talking again... Ah, well, it all worked out eventually!

Monday, February 28, 2011

Natalie's Birthday (including Castle pinata)

Natalie wanted a "Super Why" themed birthday party again this year, but with the specific focus being the story of "Jack and the Beanstalk". We decided it would be the most fun just to focus on the adventure of getting to the castle in the clouds (not the whole angry giant and stolen goods aspects of the story!). To that end, we painted a bunch of oatmeal canisters green to be our "beanstalk" and we also made a castle pinata. Poking around the web, I came up with some ideas on how to make it a pull-string pinata so it would be reusable (and safe to do inside!).

I made a mini-album on FaceBook showing/describing how I made the pinata, hopefully this link will take you there:

We played several games with the kids:
"Catch the Cows" (blind man's bluff with everyone on their knees moo-ing);
"Magic Bean" Bingo;
"Cloud Hop" (jumping across the living room from shape to shape, each time across one "cloud" disappearing --- kind of like a non-competetive cake-walk);
and "Don't Wake the Guard Dog" (which is like red-light-green-light).

After each game we added some pieces to the beanstalk. Here are Natalie and most of her guests (one was being too shy for the group shot) in front of the cabinet where we built the beanstalk up to the castle...


With no sticks involved, Daddy (Matt) was quite willing to hold the pinata for us:


After the games and pinata, we moved on to presents and then cake. Having spent quite a lot of time on the pinata, I was fortunate to persuade Natalie that a simple cake would be fine... I'd seen little plastic "Super Why" cake topper character on the web, but we made our own by printing out the characters onto cardstock and mounting them on handles from plastic forks. Yummy chocolate cake (of course!), a few Cool Whip "clouds", and there ya go:


After cake & ice cream, we just let the kids play with Natalie's new stuff until their parents collected them...

Monday, January 10, 2011

It's A Boy!

Well, the verdict is in --- Higglet #5 is most definitely a boy. The ultrasound left no doubt --- in fact we had to be careful which pictures to send in for show-and-tell...

Here's the latest preview:



Needless to say, Mike is particularly delighted -- he is already talking about how he and "brother" will share a room and such... Natalie's excited, too, and Emily's only regret is that this means we can't name the baby "Lily." (Esther, of course, remains completely clueless about the upcoming changes in family dynamics....)

Well, see you in another 20 weeks little guy!

Monday, December 13, 2010

Quick Note to Primary "Followers"

Over the summer/fall, I posted a few of my ideas/plans for LDS Primary "Sharing Time" activities. I've been released as a counselor now, though. I'll still get to stay in Primary - co-teaching the CTR 8 class, starting in January - but will not be doing Sharing Time anymore...

My thanks to those who left kind comments --- and especially to those who shared their own ideas! Hope you all keep having great Primary experiences!

Sunday, November 28, 2010

In Case You Haven't Heard Our News...

If I haven't run into you in a while and/or otherwise neglected to mention it, we are expecting another "Higglet" in the Spring --- in the vicinity of May 25th, most likely.

Yes, this makes 5. And yes, we are delighted! The kids are excited, too, but took the actual announcement rather coolly --- they had been saying they wanted us to have a baby, so in their minds, it was just a matter of time... :-)

The kids all think we should have a boy this time but I have kindly informed them that:
A)Heavenly Father gets to decide and
B)It will be a while before we know... and, last but not least,
C)Baby girls are fun, too --- just look at Esther (who is now two and prone to screaming if the older kids infringe on her personal space but still loves to run up and give them "loves" when they come home from school)

They take these reminders/cautions in stride and then reiterate, "yeah, but we Want a Boy!"
(If they do get a boy, I suppose we know who to send our next Christmas Wish Lists to!)

Here's a little preview:(Higglet #5 at 12 weeks)

So, that's it --- real "news" for a change :-)

Friday, August 20, 2010

Primary Sharing Time - 4th Week of August, 2010

My turn for Sharing Time again :-)

This week's theme:
Miracles come to those who have faith

Once again, the official Sharing Time Outline is pretty clear and full of ideas/suggestions. I will pretty much be following that:

First, start of with D&C 63:9: “But, behold, faith cometh not by signs, but signs follow those that believe.” (Explain that the word signs in this scripture can also mean miracles.) Points to mention:
- miracles are not always dramatic events
- we must first have faith, and then we will recognize miracles
- even though we have faith, we will still experience sorrow, pain, and suffering, but God is aware of our needs and will care for us.

For the next part, the outline uses the story of Moses and Pharaoh and the plagues to illustrate the point that witnessing miracles does not make someone a believer. (It is suggested you can have the kids do actions along with the story to go along with the afflictions --- croaking, buzzing, scratching, moaning... but I figure I'll play that by ear depending on how wound up the kids are that day...) I figure I'll wrap it up by reading or having an older child read:

Exodus 11:10 And Moses and Aaron did all these wonders before Pharaoh: and the Lord hardened Pharaoh’s heart, so that he would not let the children of Israel go out of his land.


As an additional "bad example", I may mention Laman and Lemuel... I mean, how many times did those goobers see angels and yet they still did not believe... (Like Pharaoh, they only ever relented out of fear, not out of faith or any desire to repent.)


Contrast this story with an example where faith produced a miracle The Outline suggests Elijah and the widow of Zarephath, Daniel and the lions, the brother of Jared, or Nephi and Lehi in prison. I'm going with the story of the brother of Jared. I'll show the kids where the story is locates (Ether chapters 1-3) and give a little background --- it was the time of the tower of Babel, the Jaredites were spared the confusion of languages and told to build barges to sail to the Promised Land, etc. (I didn't come across any good "Jaredite barge" pictures so I'll probably just draw on the chalkboard). I'll explain the dilemna about light in the boats and I have some little glass "gems" to show what the stones the brother of Jared made might have looked like... I also happen to have a little LED "dome" light to set next to them as an example of a tiny light being sufficient in an emergency...


In the "Encourage Application" section of the Sharing Time Outline, it suggests asking a couple families to come in and relate stories of faith and miracles in their lives. I haven't been in town for the last two weeks to line anything up, but our Bishop may come in... If he's not available, or gets held up with other things, I'll fill in with a story of my own or with a couple more scripture stories. (Probably Daniel & the Lions' Den for the Junior Primary, maybe Nephi & Lehi in prison for the Senior Primary).


So, hopefully this will do!




P.S.

My preview shows my fonts on this post are acting weird and I can't seem to figure out why or fix it... Ah, well --- Sorry!

Thursday, August 19, 2010

Vacation was Great!

We just got back from 2 weeks in Pittsburgh --- staying with my parents, of course!

It was great fun, and I have lots of pictures to share, but that will have to wait a bit...

I'll come back and "edit" this post later to include fun stories & photos... but now I've got loads of stuff to unpack and a "Sharing Time" to prepare...

Saturday, July 31, 2010

Primary Sharing Time - 1st Week of August, 2010

I am doing Sharing Time again this week --- we're juggling schedules a little to accommodate vacations (including mine)...

This week's theme is: Jesus Christ is a God of Miracles

The (official) Sharing Time Outline is pretty simple and clear this time, so I'm pretty much following that.... (Guess the word "miracle", define it for the kids, tell 2 stories of miracles, let kids act out/do actions to stories....)

Two cool ideas I'm swiping from other people, though:

1) To go along with the story of Jesus Calming the Storm, Amy Gerber on Sugardoodle had a neat idea for actions, etc.

2) Deborah Raymond had the idea of using fish as a tie-in to the two stories suggested in the outline and a couple other miracles, including feeding the multitudes and walking on water... She's making an incredible little craft to give her Primary kids --- which is way more ambitious than I would ever be! However, she also designed a simple handout (and even thoughtfully provided it in black-and-white) and I think I'll probably go ahead and print that (or make something similar).

I'm so glad people are willing to share their ideas!

Oh, and thanks to whoever put my link for the last Sharing Time I did onto Sugardoodle --- I'm flattered!

Sunday, July 18, 2010

Primary Sharing Time - 3rd Week of July, 2010: Results

(This is the follow-up to my previous post about planning this week's Sharing Time)

Well, I think my attempt at actually presenting this Sharing Time went ok; my one problem (as is often the case) is judging how long activities will take... With this particular one, my timing mistake was basically that the songs are too long to have the kids to hear/sing the whole thing - or even the 1st verse, really....

For both Junior & Senior Sharing Times, I set up by placing the various posters all around the room --- propping them on chairs, the chalkboard, the windows, etc. I also had a cd player set up for the music.

With Junior Primary (ages 3-8) I read the scripture to them, showed the picture of Christ's example, then let them pick a "modern" equivalent picture. I played the first bit of the corresponding song, having them raise their hands when they recognized it. Then I played the rest of the song and talked a little about it --- or at least I did that for the 1st set! Then I realized my time was already half gone... For the rest I mostly had them match the pictures and played only a couple of the songs they were most familiar with. (My apologies to the teachers for going over, though!)

So, for the Sr Primary kids (ages 9-11) I read the scripture, had them find both pictures, and then played the instrumental version of the song, only --- again having them start singing (or at least raise hands) when they recognized the song. I left the song playing while I summed up each topic... I did get through 6 of the 7 that way...

The (official) Sharing Time Outline suggested splitting the kids up and having different groups/classes look up the scriptures, match the pictures & songs, etc. I couldn't see that working with our particular Primary group at this time, though. We have a fairly large and extremely "lively" group of Juniors, and most of them are under the age of 6 and can't read much, etc. It isn't easy to get them focused in the first place, let alone splitting them and then bringing them back together, etc. For the "Senior" group we might have been ok, but we only have them split into 2 classes....

Anyway, I think it worked out ok....

Thanks to all who left kind and encouraging comments on my initial post! I don't know if/when I'll have anything particular to share in the future, but I'll certainly be more likely to post ideas when they occur! In the meantime, I plan to lurk around eclaires singing and sharing time blog now and then because I like what she did with this one, too! (She commented on my initial post and then posted her own "results")

Good luck to you all with future Sharing Times! Oh, and if you are inclined to post/share your own ideas/experiences with Primary on your own blog (or whatever), feel free to leave a comment telling us where to look!

Wednesday, July 14, 2010

Primary Sharing Time - 3rd Week of July, 2010

I'm second counselor in our (church's) Primary these days, and working on a Sharing Time for the upcoming week. (If you don't know what I'm talking about, don't worry about it --- I'll soon go back to yapping about my kids' Birthdays and other earth shattering family "news"... or, you are more than welcome check out the 2010 Outline for Sharing Time page on the official LDS (aka Mormon Church) website!)

Anyway, the theme for this coming week is: Jesus Christ’s Example Teaches Me How to Live. One suggested activity is to have kids match up pictures of Christ setting an example of a gospel principle (such as prayer, baptism, etc) with Primary Songs about the topic and, of course, with related scripture references. There are four suggestions for "matches" in the outline and I thought of a couple more. I also decided I want to use two pictures on some examples - one of Christ and one of "modern" people doing the same thing. The pictures I'm using are all in the Gospel Art Book (GAB) and the songs are from the Children's Song Book (CS). Here's my list:

1. Christ's Example: praying, praying with family
pictures: "Jesus Praying with His Mother" (GAB 33) and "Family Prayer" (GAB 112);
song: "A Child's Prayer" (CS 12-13)
scriptures: Matthew 19:14 and D&C 112:10

2. Christ's Example: studying the gospel
pictures: Boy Jesus in the Temple" (GAB 34) and "Joseph Smith Seeks Wisdom in the Bible" (GAB 89)
song: "Seek the Lord Early" (CS 108)
scripture: Luke 2:42-49

3. Christ's Example: being baptized
pictures:"John... Baptizing Jesus" (GAB 35) and "Girl Being Baptized" (GAB 104)
song: "Baptism" (CS 100-101)
scripture: Matthew 3:13-17

4. Christ's Example: calling apostles (their example of willing service, etc)
pictures: "Calling of the Fishermen" (GAB 37) and Any picture of the current apostles (out of the Ensign or whatever you can find --- our library has one)
song: "Come Follow Me" (Hymn 116 --- regular adult Hymn book)
scripture: Matthew 4:18-20

5. Christ's Example: sharing/teaching the gospel
pictures: "Go Ye Therefore" (GAB ___?) or "The Sermon on the Mount" (GAB 39) and Pictures of Modern Missionaries (GAB 109 and 110, or photos from own ward if available)
song: We'll Bring the World His Truth (CS 172)
scriptures: Matthew 28:19-20

6. Christ's Example: healing, serving the "afflicted", loving regardless of physical condition
pictures: "Jesus Healing the Nephites" (GAB 83) and Any poster/picture you can find with kids helping each other or visiting sick or such (I ended up with a poster showing a little boy helping a little girl ride a trike --- it's all I could find so far...)
song: "I'll Walk with You" (CS 140-141)
scripture: 3 Nephi 17:7-9

7. Christ's Example: His continuing love for us and His promise to Return
pictures: "The Second Coming" (GAB 66) and "Christ and Children from around the World" (GAB 116)
song: "When He Comes Again" (CS 82)
scripture: Matthew 16:27 (and Matthew 19:14 again!)

Just to be clear, #2, 3, 5 & 6 are the ones mentioned specifically in the official Sharing Time Outline, the rest were what I felt good about after looking through the various songs we are using this year and paging through the Gospel Art Book.... If you thought of some I didn't, PLEASE SHARE!

Also, since I figure our Primary Chorister is plenty busy already --- and since she goes into the Nursery and such while we are doing Sharing Time, I am just putting the songs I need onto a CD... The MP3s are all free to download from the church website, and, in fact, from the "Songs for Use During Sacrament Meeting Presentation in 2010" page, nonetheless :-)

Oh, and although I'm having the older kids look up the scripture references in their own Bibles, etc, I also printed them off in larger type for the younger kids --- very easy to do thanks to the church's online scriptures!

Hope this saves someone some time --- or that I get comments suggesting more!

- Jen